Love is a beautiful thing, and by
saying that I ain’t buying no face or favors. I love couples who love holding
on to their partners, because that’s the only way you could make it work (If
it’s meant to work).
The state of break-ups amongst the
milk-toothed relationships is quite frightening. What’s is really scary,
especially within the black community, is how we often break-up when there is a
new life involved. Wait a minute! How did we get this far in the first place?
Who cares, the milk is spilt already, what’s the use of crying over it.
Even so, I still feel we miss our
priorities hell a lot of times. Sweety… Priorities isn’t a list of things
enlisted in the first page of your diary, nope. Priorities is the chain of acts…
I’d love to be making some sense but I sense I’m not. Point is, priorities are
to be acted upon, not just written down and decorated. If something matters
that much to you, it should show.
I don’t know how you’ve nailed
priorities in your diary, but from your chain of acts it appears your sequence
is quite absurd. Your Facebook status was sounding a lot like we might be
hearing the wedding bells quite soon, but before we know, it’s all over. And so
we conclude, your expectations of your three-month old relationship were much
unreasonable.
Believe you me, there is more to
cling-on in life than just your partner in love. How about you secure that
qualification, get that paper and then find some compatible companion to chow
it with. I am not saying stop it with umjolo
(Dating). But juggle it a little down in your priorities. There is a lot to
get right before trying to get it right.
First things first ma se kend. Keep
your loved one close, but your goals even closer.
